FREE GUIDE TO NAVIGATING YOUR DIVORCE

Hi there, 

Thank you for downloading your FREE step-by-step guide to navigating a successful divorce or breakup. As someone who has been through this, I know it is scary, daunting, and can feel overwhelming. 

When I went through my divorce, I was the first in my family and so nobody could give me any help or advice. I did what any confused and overwhelmed person would do and went to the bookstore for a guide on how to do this. That didn’t work, nobody could tell me what to do, where to find a good lawyer, what all the legal terms meant, what the process would be, what to tell my child, what documents I needed to get together, how to deal with the torrent of emotions, etc. 

I felt so alone, confused, and afraid. 

That is why I created the Thrive Through Your Divorce Course. I never want another person to go through the trauma without a tool to guide you through the entire process from beginning through to the end. From deciding whether to end the relationship, finding a lawyer, getting your documents together, drafting contracts, dealing with the cascade of emotions, talking to and dealing with the kids and family and friends, to making peace with and forgiving yourself and living alone with confidence. 

In the following Guide you will get clarity on: 

1. If you should end the relationship, give it another try, or try couples therapy. 
2. How to find a lawyer and get all the information and documents together, find a place to stay, and get an income if you don’t have one currently? 
3. How to deal with the denial and isolation you will feel when you decide to leave? 
4. Working with your anger and making the right decisions for you. 
5. Bargaining, either in the divorce contracts or in your emotions. Finalising the divorce contract.
6. How to accept your situation, forgive yourself, and move forward into your new life. 
7. Kids Talks can be tough but there are ways to tell your kids about the divorce that won’t leave them confused and feeling insecure. I will give you methods to do this age appropriately and ensure they feel empowered and loved. 
8. After getting a divorce you will have to live alone and cope with visitations, triggers, and stress. I have systems you can implement to make this as simple and stress-free as possible.
9. And finally, how to heal, learn to love and trust again, and not let your past influence your future. 

You may already have decided and are in the middle of the fights, lawyers’ meetings, and custody battle but it’s never too late to begin making the right decisions, overcome all the emotions that accompany this process, and get your control back. You may or may not know what to do next or be confused and panicked. No matter where you are I am here to help you with practical guidance. 

Below is your path to freedom where I will be guiding you through your divorce, talking to the kids and family and moving on to your new future. I will be your friend to hold your hand and walk you through all the different phases and to ensure you come out stronger than you went in, more empowered and ready to take on your new life. I have been through this myself so I know what you are going through, I also know that you can do this and no matter your circumstance there is always a way through this. 

All the steps follow in a general order that most people go through when getting divorced, except for Kids Talks. This one I suggest you work through when needed so that you tell the kids in the right way about your separation. 

Get ready for your journey to self-discovery, growth and ultimate freedom. 

Your friend 

Karin